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Together every step of the way: June and Clare’s Capecare story

After almost two decades as neighbours at Busselton’s Ray Village retirement units, best friends June Ridley and Clare McMulkin moved into Capecare Busselton residential care just one week apart. Their story reflects the comfort that familiar people, places and support can bring as care needs change.

June and Clare first met through lawn bowls, but their friendship truly flourished after they moved into Ray Village within a week of each other in 2008. As next-door neighbours for 19 years, they shared everyday conversations, Village activities and celebrations, while supporting one another through the changes that come with growing older.

“We all looked after one another,” June said of life and the friendships they formed at the Village.

Both women also love the beachside living Capecare provides. June visited the beach most days when living in her unit, while Clare regularly walked along the coastal path towards the yacht club.

As their needs changed, both women began receiving Capecare Community home care services in their Ray Village units, including help with cleaning, meal preparation and personal care. Having support come to them allowed June and Clare to remain living independently for much longer.

“We had plenty of help,” Clare said. “We were looked after, just the same as we are looked after here.”

Eventually, both women reached the point where residential aged care offered the reassurance and day-to-day support they needed. It was an important decision, and one they each made for themselves.

For June, who just turned 94, part of the decision was a desire to ease the responsibility on her children, who live outside Busselton. Her son had been travelling from Perth each week to support her.

“I wanted to give my children some free time,” she said. “They’ve got their lives to live. We’ve lived ours.”

At age 99, Clare also recognised that she was spending increasing amounts of time on her own and would benefit from having more support around her.

Both women reached the same conclusion themselves. “It was our decision,” Clare said. “That was important.”

Although moving into residential care is a significant adjustment, there was comfort for June and Clare in already knowing and trusting Capecare. They were familiar with the organisation through their years living at Ray Village and the home care support they had received. Clare had also volunteered in the Shop at Capecare Busselton and knew the buildings and many of the people working there.

Staff members who had previously helped with maintenance and gardening at their units recognised them when they moved into residential care. “It makes you feel good,” Clare said.

Another welcome and familiar face was Capecare Property Manager Kelley Robinson, who had previously helped manage Ray Village and had known both women for many years. Kelley continues to visit June and Clare regularly and has been available to help them navigate their new surroundings and resolve any concerns.

For June, knowing her best friend would also be moving into Capecare Busselton made an enormous difference.

“When I knew Clare was coming, I was so happy,” she said. “Someone I know, someone I love.”

June moved in first, with Clare following a week later—just as they had moved into their Ray Village units within a week of one another many years before.

The friends are honest that residential care brings change. There are new routines to become accustomed to, new surroundings to learn and moments when people naturally wonder whether they could have continued managing at home.

However, they have found kindness, companionship and plenty of support.

“The staff are really lovely,” Clare said. “They can’t do enough for you.”

June agrees that kindness matters most.

“They’re kind, and that’s the main thing,” she said.

The pair enjoy sharing meals with the other residents, describing the dining table as being like “one big family”. They take part in activities that keep them engaged and connected and particularly enjoy regular visits from local schoolchildren.

Clare continues to enjoy regular strolls around the Capecare grounds and neighbouring Ray Village. A weekly game of canasta with Village friends remains a highlight, and she regularly enjoys outings with her family. Maintaining these longstanding relationships and routines has helped her remain connected to the life she enjoyed before moving.

“I’ve always been a walker,” Clare said, recalling the bushwalks and orchid-spotting trips she enjoyed while visiting her son and daughter-in-law in Leeman.
June and Clare’s journey—from independent retirement living, through home care and into residential aged care—shows the value of having trusted support that can adapt over time.

While their surroundings and care needs have changed, the relationships they built have continued. For June and Clare, that continuity has meant entering the next stage of life together, surrounded by people who already know their stories.

And, just as they did at Ray Village, the best friends remain side by side.

Free information sessions on aged care Support at Home changes

The Federal Government is introducing changes to the way home care services are charged from 1 July 2025.

A new Support at Home program will replace Home Care Packages and the Short-Term Restorative Care Programme.

Capecare is presenting two free information sessions in June to help people understand these Support at Home changes, plus they will share information on respite care and aged care services available in the community.

Capecare’s Community Manager Lesley Cunningham said the Government’s changes would help older people stay in their homes for longer and hopefully make the system more equitable.

“We’ve been planning for these changes being implemented and are keen to share information with our community members so they can find out how they can access our services,” she said.

“The new process will improve access to services and our goal at Capecare is to keep our community clients at home for as long as possible, connecting them to our services and dedicated support workers to allow them to age in place with dignity.

“Capecare provides a community social centre, respite stays, in-home respite care, allied health and in-home care so we are able to provide our clients with consistent care, tailored to their needs.

Find out about how you or a loved one can access federal funding and Capecare’s services in Busselton on Thursday 12 June at 10.30am at Capecare’s Community Centre at 20 Ray Avenue Busselton, or in Dunsborough on Wednesday 11 June at the CWA Rooms at Capecare Dunsborough at 171 Naturaliste Terrace from 9am to 11am.

Morning tea will be provided and Capecare’s Community team will be on hand to answer all of your questions.

RSVP to community@capecare.com.au or call 9750 2097.

Happy 100th Birthday Eddi!

Capecare Busselton resident Eddi Cowling has packed a lifetime of adventure into her 100 years.

She’s been a lorry driver for the Women’s Auxiliary Air Force (WAAF), a British Red Cross volunteer nurse, and an amateur dramatics singer and performer. She has a passion for ballroom dancing, Donna Leong murder mysteries, Queen Elizabeth II, crosswords and travel.

Eddi hails from Yorkshire and emigrated to Australia 40 years ago. She’s retained a delightful sense of humour and a twinkle in her eye.

Travel has been a constant in her life and she was keen to get moving by her late teens, when World War II was being fought.

“I always wanted to drive but my dad wouldn’t teach me because not many girls drove ‘in them days’. Bless him. My dad was lovely though, very understanding.

“I thought that if women were being called up to war, then I may as well join and do something I enjoy.

“So I left home and joined the WAAF and learned to drive before I turned 20. I drove lorries, not quite the size of the trucks you see now. I drove within England from the aerodrome, stationed mostly in Yorkshire and Lincolnshire and London for a time.”

Eddi has loved ballroom dancing all her life and met husband Geoffrey on the dancefloor.

When living in Hertford in Hertfordshire, she joined the local amateur dramatics society.

“I loved acting, it was in the years when they used to write proper music. Rogers and Hammerstein, started with Oklahoma then Carousel. Beautiful songs. I sang in the chorus, I can sing in tune but haven’t got a strong voice.”

Eddi and Geoffrey married in 1951 and moved around the UK with his work as a town planner. She has enjoyed many holidays in Italy, France, Spain, Yugoslavia and Africa.

Her and daughter Julia are great friends, and when Julia emigrated to Australia for work in 1982, Eddi and Geoffrey followed. They lived in Sydney for 16 years, enjoying their retirement and making new friends. When Julia later moved to Western Australia, they again followed and spent approximately seven years in Margaret River before Edna moved to Capecare when Geoffrey passed away.

“I say to a lot of young people: do try to travel. Travelling is all about gaining experience. You learn about other people’s lives and what it’s like living in different countries, meeting different people. You then get friends dotted all over.”

When asked about proud moments from her life, Eddi recalls her time spent volunteering with British Red Cross. She joined after moving to a new town and although she hadn’t planned to be a nurse, she thought it would be a way to make new friends. She stayed with the Red Cross for more than 20 years.

Among her fond Red Cross memories was competing. Competitions were held regularly nationwide to test the knowledge of nursing standards. The competitions were used to highlight expertise and encourage funding from the community.

“We got to London in a first aid competition, up against different counties. We came fifth. The people who won came from Scotland, so they probably had nothing better to do!” she laughed.

“I’ve got lovely memories from it and made everlasting friends until they went. That’s the sadness of getting old.”

Eddi has a striking photo of her in a Red Cross uniform. “It was taken outside of St Pauls in London, on the centenary of the Red Cross in 1963. It was a lovely occasion; the Queen was there, I got to see her, but I didn’t get to shake her hand.

“The Queen was a lovely young woman. She did a good job. I ached for her when Phillip died as I think he was her rock and I still shed tears for her.”

When mentioning that she would be amongst the first to receive a letter from the King for her 100th birthday, she waved it off, saying “I’ve got friends who are over 100, it isn’t as uncommon these days. 70 was once old, my darling dad went at 70. We’re doing something right living longer aren’t we?”

While age has slowed Eddi physically, she hasn’t slowed down mentally, making a point of regularly challenging herself.

“I find it very hard to believe I’m the age I am. I know I’m fortunate, I’ve got my own teeth, most of them, and a sense of humour!

“I do crosswords and cryptic puzzles. They sometimes baffle me but I like the challenge.

“I also like reading, especially whodunits by Donna Leon. They’re very clever books, so you learn from them. They are set in Venice and Italy and I’ve read some of her books twice. I like them so much one dropped on my foot the other day! Blood everywhere! But I’ve forgiven her.  “She writes knowing that whoever is reading it is sensible enough to know what she’s saying. She’s very human, not hoity toity.”

“I have a lovely room here at Capecare surrounded by my pictures – Julia’s paintings of Leeds, an English bluebell wood, and of Italy. I love northern Italy around the lakes on the border of Switzerland, Lago Maggiore.”

Eddi says she has enjoyed a good life. “Yes I would say I’ve had a very happy life so far, I’ve had my ups and downs and emotional rollercoasters, but I try to see the other person’s point of view, we’re not always right.”

“I’m not very good at giving out advice, we’re all very different, aren’t we? We all have different values. But you’ve got to try and keep an open mind and a sense of humour and keep your mind active.

“Make the most of life all the time and travel. Meet people, and if you have an ambition try to follow it. Don’t take offence quickly and be prepared to listen to people.

Happy 100th Birthday Eddi from everyone at Capecare, we love your sense of humour, warmth and positive attitude.

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